Thank you for your very caring reply and reaching out to help me and my wife. I think it’s true that we don’t know the greater plan and that for some reason this was not meant to be at this time. My wife has also had some medical problems and maybe a delivery would have also been worse for her health. We just have to accept that we don’t understand right now.
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I could not imagine any greater loss and it was very healing that you found a spiritual path to help you deal with this tragic loss. We have always been spiritual and that is growing over time as we experience new challenges. We have also had deeper questions, with this loss and others, which are unknowable. But having these ADC communications with this child and some of our departed loved ones gives us an idea of what may be ahead on the other side. Yesterday, my wife and I also discussed that maybe we would still have a life with her, but in the afterlife, believe that is possible and we think you will too with your son.
It has been also hard realizing that many people around us did not acknowledge the loss and or minimized it at that time. We were also not able to grieve then for many reasons -- all the fertility treatments and just as we were ending those efforts, a very sudden adoption. Naturally, we put our joy in our new son in front of the pain, life was very hectic raising him, being in business, etc. We didn’t want to think it about it either and guess we thought this would take care of any sadness we were feeling (and it did to a great extent), but now it has come up to be recognized. And she must think we are ready to know more, so this really is comforting overall. Thank you again for your very kind thoughts and words.
Bruce
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