Well, that's really neat that you figured it all out! I have no doubt she was thinking of you at the last, just as you were thinking about her! :) Love reaches out from one heart to another.
I just know she was/is now sorry for all the pain and harm she caused, and wishes very much to repair some of the damage. Perhaps she will send you some ADC's to heal the pain caused in the past, like Maryann suggested! Be watching for them!
We'd love to hear about those ADC's when they come. May they heal your heart and give you joy!!