Peg,
I too have someone who went "mental" on me. I know how helpless it makes you feel when they turn their back on you. Sometimes things are out of your control, but I know it is natural to feel guilt and try to figure a way you could have changed things. I am going through this right now. I have heard my sister has breast cancer and I have reached out to her twice to no avail. I know alcohol plays a big part in her "mental state." At least I still have hope she will come around. As for you, you have identified the problem she had and can place blame on a mental state rather than the person you loved. Try not to dwell on the adversities and remember her as you loved her and forgiveness will come. |
|
