Thank you so much. What you said makes sense as well. Soul to Soul....I like that! After a fitful sleep last night, what a wonderful sight to see this and Teresa's words of comfort. I do appreciate you both being here and I'm sure everyone else here at this board feels the same way!
A phone call came while I was typing a response to Teresa. A relative had talked to my aunt before she passed and my aunt told her she was planning to call me soon so that we could talk things over with. Hubby just said, see there, that should make you feel better. And it does. I will always wonder what she would have said but now at least I know that maybe some of her hatred had diminished and that her passing was peaceful.