Please accept my condolences for the loss of your husband. Signs/ADC's are very personal and often intimate, so keep that in mind.
The shells/bullets found after cleaning are important, IMO. A dime can also be important...I find dimes and just "know" they are from "my gang" because of where or how I find them.
By reading other parts of this website and especially, the book Hello From Heaven, it will help and hopefully give you some comfort.
Your loss is raw and brand new.....Allow yourself the time to go through the journey, as painful as it is. And don't let anyone tell you how you should be feeling over time. There is NO timetable to grief.
Blessings. |
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