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I read many of the stories here today. The loss of our
loved ones is the most difficult thing one will ever endure in their life. The silence of
the life that was once so much a part of our every day life is sometimes overwhelming. It
is at the times you feel the most unhappy and the void is just to much that you should
know in your heart that they are there with you. It is the same as when they were here in
the flesh to lift you up, nothing has changed in that respect. Do you think God would ever
take that from you? No he wouldn't. So I say to you believe and you will be hearing from
your loved ones, Jesus say's "Ask and it shall be given" Believe as a child
would believe. Let nothing come between you and your communication with God. He Really
does love each and every one of us. I know from where I speak, I lost my 25 year old son
Jason, Oct,5 /96, to a drunk driver. HE STILL VERY MUCH WITH US! God Bless you all.
My sister April was taken from us suddenly by a speeding
car on Sept 21 1997. She was only 26. I miss her so much at times it is overwhelming, It
helps that there are places like this that I can turn to for help.
Lost my husband who was my very best friend, partner and
soul mate for 37 years on 9/23/97 - 6:30 PM. My Bob had not been ill, a sudden massive
heart attack took him away. He was a good man..truly an angel in disguise...battled
alcoholism for many of his adult years however at the time of his death, through the grace
of God and AA, he had been sober for 25 years. The outpouring of love and support was
phenomenal...I met so many people he had helped that I never even knew. His good deeds
were done without fanfare or expectation of recognition or reward. I know he is in
heaven...and wouldn't want us to mourn...but we miss him so much. Looking forward to
reading your book...if there is any way for him to communicate with us...I know it will
happen. Thanks for providing this site...it helps the hurting to share with others.
I lost my husband and soul mate to heart arrythmia
suddenly on Jan. 30 this year. He had just turned 39. I read and reread your book,
"Hello From Heaven" over and over. It was the one thing that gave me hope and
comfort and assured me I was not insane with the ADC's I had been receiving. I also had a
vision before he died to warn me of his passing over that I did not understand until
afterward. I also lost a sister in 1978 suddenly to a blood clot. She was just 25 and
married 6 weeks. I am still hurting extremely bad and some days can barely go on but I
have hope that life goes on. I am a skeptic by nature but the ADC's have been so obvious
and with witnesses, they have been impossible to count as anything but messages and signs
from my husband.
My wife and I lost triplets on 25 May 1991. They were
less then one day old and to this day we are yet to heal from all the pain. We were lucky
enough to have another child a son that has helped us to deal with our great loss. We are
trully Thankful for the chance to raise a child that the lord has granted us. We miss our
triplets dearly and not a day goes by that they are not in our prayers.... Thanks for
being here for those of us that truely need somewhere to turn in times of need..
A great way to comfort a brother who lost his wife in
sept.
A great way to comfort a brother who lost his wife in
sept.
I heard about this from my brother who lost his wife last
Sept.
I'm very interested in James Van Praagh. I believe in
him. I would really love to talk with him. I have 3 brothers who have passed away and my
father. I'd love to know how they are now and what they think of the way I turned out. I
guess just the things that everyone is curious about.
First time here, will comment later.
Happened onto this site while doing research for a paper.
I lost my son 8 years ago in April; a victim of teen suicide. There have been many ADC's
and I thank God each and every time it happens. Death is only a separation for awhile. For
those of you who are newly bereaved, keep the faith. You will survive, even if you don't
want to. Someday, you will see colors again. I only wish I had had someone to say this to
me 7 years ago. God Bless all of you.
My precious 17 year old son, Matthew Brandon Sooy, died
suddenly on April 11, 1997. One week after he was buried I heard him call "Mom".
My mother and husband have also had an ADC with Matt in a dream. My 20 year old daughter,
Jessyka, often has dreams that seem to be ADC. I've been praying for another ADC from my
beloved son, but with no luck. My heart has a huge hole in it since he left.
I would like to know how to get in touch with Dr. Raymond
Moody for the purpose of incorporating one of his NDE friends that relaxation
"chair/spa" (it was mentioned in the book "After the Light") into a
viable consumer-friendly atmosphere. I don't have details but I have received this idea
through a revelation of sorts. Any help on this would be appreciated.
I stumbled onto this site from another site and am so
glad I did. I lost my mother suddenly in Feb of '91 and am in fear of losing my
"other" mother--my step mom-- to cancer. I have lost way too many important
people in my life in the past few years. Every time I feel that i can finally cope with
the loss of one loved one, another one dies. It hurts. Jenn
There is no greater way of expressing love than to keep
alive the memory and the spirits of those we lost, than to reach out to others to let them
know they are not alone. I sincerely extend my appreciation to Judy Guggenheim for her
work of love and offer to become our "neighbor" in joining forces with her
remarkable forum and ours, GROWW, Inc. Our site is viewed through http://www.groww.com. We
offer support in every aspect of grieving through support "chat rooms" on AOL at
present until a forum that is accessible to all is found. Our "Branches" consist
of various forms of support as follows: Adult Guiding Angels - Over 20 losing a parent -
RRArtist4U & TOOSEXY741 All our Angels - Friends, Family and multiple losses -
Merci70034 Enabled Angels - Living with Emotional and substance abuse - Charl51739 &
Rosaliebk For Widowed Only - Deblynna, Chinaraw GADD - Groww against Drunk Driving -
ERASandy & SueB816 GROWW, Grief Recovery Online - JDivers & Monitors Guiding
Angels - Under 20 losing a parent - RRArtist4U & TOOSEXY741 Heavenly Angels - Bereaved
Parents - TripL155 Kindred Angels - Sibling loss - Contact - Sunset654 PTA - Parenting
Teenagers Alone RRArtist4U & AKAnnie g Reluctant Angels - Survivors of Suicide -
Teetsee Special Angels - Our children with disabilities PennyRVr &Martygal Stormy
Angels - Rape survivors - Charl51739 & Texrig Tender Angels - Widowed under age 49 -
SWells4617 Timeless Angels - Terminal illnesses - Mustang 147, Unexpected Angels - Sudden
deaths - TripL155 ALL SCREENAME ADDRESSES TO BE FOLLOWED BY @aol.com for information on
the branches, or visit our website where Email is available for each Branch Coordinator at
http://www.groww.com We hope that you will visit our room and become part of what we feel
is the best online support group available. (One of the best now that I've discovered this
forum). The success is based on the anonymity of the membership, the candid conversations
of one's innermost pain spoken freely, the silent words, the faceless faces, the
confidentiality of identity and the freedom to express oneself without shame or judgement.
The topics are the members themselves. Open discussions based on the grief of the
individual member shared with other members. The members are the experts for they
themselves have experienced a loss that no other can understand unless they have
"walked the path of pain" that comes with losing a loved one. Words spoken
freely from the heart, not quoted from a book have more of an impact on a man or woman who
needs to hear that someone understands. Only those who lost a spouse can know the
devastation of that loss. Those facing the loss can only understand this devastation from
someone who has been there. Only those who have lost a child can understand the pain. Only
those who have lost a parent, young or old can understand the pain. Only those who have
lost a sibling or a best friend can understand. And those living with the threat of their
own death can understand when they hear their own fears through those who face it
themselves. This support given to each other is the strongest force behind the healing of
a loss. To reach within yourself, to help others who are experiencing or have experienced
the same loss is the greatest source of healing. For all those who visit this
extraordinarily beautiful site and for those who will visit GROWW.... I pray for your
comfort when you discover that the echoes of their heartbeat continues on with the spirit
of love that remains alive eternally. Judy Divers - President of GROWW, Inc. Widow of
William Divers, who lost his life to cancer, 9/4/92, it is for him, to keep alive his
legacy of life and love that GROWW exists.
I am so glad to find this site. The only reason I found
it is because Ms. Guggenheim left a post on the GROWW website. I'll be back. Brad
I just found your website for the first time and I am
overjoyed. My mother passed away 8/12/97 very suddenly from pneumonia and my father, my
sister and I are overcome with grief. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to live
through and seeing my father hurting is killing me even more. Please share with my family
any advice you might have on getting through this. I'm very interested in grief
councelling, grief support groups, grief therapy, etc. Also, after reading about your
book....I'm going to buy it for my father for his birthday 12/10/97. God bless you for
being here for us! Thanks for just listening and caring.....Tracy
What a wonderful service to all of us who need to put our
pain into words in order to heal. I lost my middle son Michael at age 21 on June 26, 1995
from an undiagnosed illness (pancreatitis). Our family will never be the same but we
believe that we will see Michael again and long for a message from him to ease the agony
of waiting for our reunion.
My ^i^ Lyndsay Victoria is one in a set of triplets. She
died when they were 9 days old in April, 1996. I figure I can't have a communication from
her because she was only 9 days old. I so desparately need to hold her in my arms again
and know that there are Angels... i miss her so terribly.
WE LOST OUR 17 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER IN SEPT. THRU OUR GRIEF
WE HAVE READ DOZENS OF BOOKS AND "HELLO FROM HEAVEN" WAS ONE OF THE BEST AND
GEORGE ANDERSONS "OUR CHILDREN ARE FOREVER". I AM GLAD TO FIND A SITE LIKE THIS
AS I FEEL THAT I AM SO ALONE IN MY THOUGHTS CONCERNING MY DAUGHTER. ONCE I CAN CLEAR MY
MIND I HOPE I WILL RECIEVE A MESSAGE FROM HER.
I lost my most precious 4 year old son Sean this summer
to drowning. I think I have been so full of guilt and anguish that I could not have
received a message even if there has been one. I am going out to try to find your book
today the day before Thanksgiving. I really hold on to this idea (new for me) that there
are no accidents. Especially because I have spent so much of my grieving energy feeling
guilt for my son's death. Thanks for your website.
I want to begin my saying how truely sorry I am to each
of you who have lost someone. I honestly believe that it is the hardest thing one could
face while on this earth. I lost my soul mate, the love of my life, my best friend, in
February of this year. I am lost and scared. I resent it when people say everything
happens for a reason, I can't find a way to justify the loss of Donovan. I guess I've
formed my own adaptation to that phrase-since it did happen, I need to take what I have
learned and help others in life by sharing the love that was so generously shared with me.
I have worked so hard to not allow my life to be a waste too. But it's hard. Sometimes I
just want to give up. I just want to be with him. I have not read any of the mentioned
books. I'm searching for answers, for peace, for a sign. I miss him so much. Donovan was
so magical. He changed my life. He opened my eyes to the beauty of this corrupted world.
He showed me true love and gave me hope. He helped me to realize that I am a strong
person, I would never have made it this far if he didn't teach me so much about myself,
about him, about life and love. I would love to talk with anyone who needs to talk. I have
a big heart with lots of love. Please feel free to e-mail me, I'll get back to you as soon
as I can. Take care. Much love, Angie Hepner. I love you Donovan.
My son Rich passed over into the spiritual world this
past June the 8th. Being the only child that I have know and raised (my first son was
adopted out) my life has been at a great loss without him. It is very comforting to have
this website to share ADC's with other people. I have had many from Rich and each time it
happens it helps me to cope with my sorrow. He sent me his first one the day he was buried
by sending a rainbow into an almost cloudless blue sky. I knew as soon as I seen it it was
a sign from him. I have just finished reading a very good book about ADC's by Joel Martin
entitled Love After Life. I would recommed it for anyone in our situation.
This is the first time I have seen this website and I am
so happy there is place for people to share their stories and thoughts. I would love to
also help as many people as possible and I have started a website inwhich each Thursday I
will do private readings by computer. If any one is interested, you can reach me at
VanPraagh.com God bless you all, James
Thank you for the wonderful website. I've had numerous
ADC with my mother, cousin, and my son whom just died on Oct 24th 1997. He was 18 and had
a freak car accident. I love him so much. When they reach out to us and let us know
they're still around it's very comforting.
Thankyou all so very much for this wonderful site-not to
mention the book!I enjoy (stange word considering the reason for the room)coming and
sharing with people and maybe helping along the way.Way to go guys!!!!!!!Terri
It is finally great to know that there are others out
there who have heard and spoken to their loved ones. It has been one of the exceptional
moments in my life to have the confirmation that all is well. Thank you for your time and
effort with this important subject. I send you Peace, Love and Light always...Sandra
My Son the Angel ^I^ © On Sunday, July 20th, 1997, my
son was struck by a car while riding his bike. He was a mere 8 years old. On Monday, July
21st it was determined that my son was brain dead. As I sat at the hospital waiting for
them to decide if there was any hope for him, I knew in my heart that he was already gone.
I then realized I had a choice to make, whether or not I should donate his organs to
others? As I sat there it seemed only natural to let him live on through the lives of
others. I suddenly felt a sense of peace about me I never knew before. I was able to
answer the prayers of others through my tragedy. Thus creating miracles for others, I then
new that this was part of my mission as a practicing angel. My 8 yr old son taught me more
in his life than I have learned in my whole existence on earth. When I arrived at home
after they declared him dead, I lit a religious candle and placed his picture on the
mantel. As I sat there and looked at his picture the most amazing thing I have ever seen
occured. A bright halo of light formed around his head in the picture, giving me a warmth,
of comfort . . . all around me. It was then I knew my little Angel Son was on his way to
Heaven back to the arms of God. When people ask how to help I merely requested they pray
for the families recieving the transplants. As I was doing. The day of my Angel's funeral
I sat down and wrote him this poem in honor of his life. MY ANGEL SON My life was in
shambles and falling apart, You came into my life and created a brand new start. You gave
me hope where I felt none, You were my beautiful little angel son. Though our time here
together was so little, You warmed my heart like the sound of a fiddle. Your smiles so big
it could make someone blind, You are my little angel and my sunshine. You gave so much to
all you were able to touch, Everyone couldn't help but love you so much. You will always
be in this mother's heart and soul, The love I have no one could understand or know. Back
to Heaven is where you, must now go, Though I will miss you I know it is so. Bless us my
angel son so bright and pure, You will walk with God, this I am sure. AngelGaurd@aol.com
In memory of Jeremy Jack Lyman 7-28-97
Loved the music, wonderful choices. Will return to listen
often.
I saw John Edwards speak last night. He recommended your
book. I look forward to reading it.
Hello everyone. I have had many ADC experiences with my
sister who died in 1988 at 37 of hodgekins disease, my niece (her daughter) who died in
August 1996 at 21 and my grandmother who died in 1994. As a matter of fact I just had a
visit from my sister last night. She came into my grandmothers kitchen, through the door
and gave me a hug and kiss on the lips. I studied her face to see if it looked the same as
I remembered and it was exactly as I did. We held on to each other. My other living sister
was there and I said to her, "Marie don't you see Carmella?" and "Carmella,
my deceased sister said, "No, she can't see me". This was REAL. I believe if we
just open ourselves up to the notion that it can happen, eventually it will for you and
when it does you WILL know it. Another living sister, Pat, has unusual ADC experiences.
She receives dream ADC's from very famous people. She has been visited and received
messages from John Lennon, Gilda Radner, Lucille Ball and very recently, Princess Diana
and many more. We don't know why she has these visits, we figure she is a strong conduit
for such communications. The messages I'm sure mean something for someone. From Gilda, her
message was for Gene Wilder. Maybe this is how we can get it to him. They are really
incredible. I have encouraged her to write them down. Anyway, please keep up the good work
and we'll be in touch (in more ways than one).
I lost my husband, Bill, to cancer on September 2nd,
1997, only two weeks after being told he had cancer. It has been extremely difficult. We
never really got to say our good byes. I have had several, what I believe to be ADCs.
After finding this website, I am now sure they were. Thanks!
My 19 yr. old son, Kyle, was killed in a car accident on
July 17th of this year. Reading your book was one of the things that kept me sane. I knew
I had been feeling Kyle's presence but thought I was going mad. We have a light fixture in
one of the rooms of our house that has two light bulbs in it. Quite often one of the
lights would flicker on and off. I tightened the bulb. It still continued to happen. I
replaced the bulb. It still continued to happen. It seemed to happen often when I was at
my very lowest point and would ask Kyle to help me. One day when the bulb flickered off I
left that room to go and get water to wash the floor in that room. When I came back
upstairs and got to the door of that room the light was still out. I said "So Kyle,
you're still here with me". The light went on, stayed on for a few seconds and went
off again. I have also had very vivid dreams where I know Kyle is trying to let me know
that he is ok. Thank you for your book. I have bought one for a friend who has recently
lost her fiancé in a car accident and I plan to read mine again. You are truly friends.
MY MOTHER DIED AUGUST 21, 1997, MY SISTER AND I LOST OUR
BEST FRIEND IN THE WORLD NEXT TO GOD. WE MISS OUR MOTHER AND IT HURTS DEEPLY, I CAN'T
EXPRESS THE HURT' IT IS SO PAINFUL. OUR MOM HAD CANCER, SHE WAS RELEASED FROM THE HOSPITAL
ON A SATURDAY, AND (ME MY SISTER LIVED 5 MINUTES AWAY FROM OUR MOTHER, WE THOUGHT THAT SHE
WOULD BE OKAY UNTIL THE MORNING, BECAUSE ON THE WEEKENDS WE WERE WITH OUR MOTHER UNTIL HER
BEDTIME, ON THE WEEKDAYS MY SISTER WOULD BE WITH OUR MOTHER IN THE MORNING AND ME IN THE
EVENINGS,) WELL WE THOUGHT THAT SHE WOULD BE OKAY UNTIL 6 AM, WHEN MY SISTER ARRIVED SHE
FOUND OUR MOTHER DEAD ON THE FLOOR. YOU CAN'T IMAGINE THE GUILT WE FEEL ABOUT LEAVING THE
WOMAN WE LOVE TO DIE ALONE. I TRUELY BELIEVE IN AFTER DEATH COMMUNICATION, I JUST PRAY
THAT OUR MOM WOULD COMMUNICATE WITH US SO WE CAN SAY MOM WE ARE SO SORRY AND WE LOVE YOU.
HOPEFULLY ONE DAY WE WILL GET PASS THIS DEEP PAIN.
My son Michael Lee Walker Jr. Died Aug. 5, 1996 he was 18
at the time. I was in such a state of shock that everyone keep putting pills in my mouth
to keep me out of it. You see Michael was my second son to die. His brother Billy died 2
3/4 hours after birth (1975) and I guess I went a little nuts. Michael was also my best
friend. We shared a special LOVE. All his friends called me mom, and I always had a house
full of boys. Everyone felt I would lose it this time for sure. But Thanks to God and his
help I have made it. You see the night of receiving friends and family I was in bed crying
my eyes out and heart totally broken. my touch lamp came on. The first time it came on I
thought I never turned it off, the second time I was scared to death and told my husband
if it came on again I was getting out of the bedroom. The third time it came on I started
to get out of there when a peaceful feeling came over me and I knew then who it was. I
told Michael good night baby, I love you. I held his hand in mine the rest of the night.
The next day I made it through the services with a smile on my face. I know people thinks
I am crazy but I had a peace that know one on this earth could have given to me except
God. The police said my son committed suicide. But I know that he was shoot in the back of
the head. I have gone to see a well known Phychic Named Bobby Drennen. He also said that
it was an accident. Michael still comes and comforts me when I need it most. Thank you for
this wed site. I know now that I am not crazy.
My son Michael Lee Walker Jr. Died Aug. 5, 1996 he was 18
at the time. I was in such a state of shock that everyone keep putting pills in my mouth
to keep me out of it. You see Michael was my second son to die. His brother Billy died 2
3/4 hours after birth (1975) and I guess I went a little nuts. Michael was also my best
friend. We shared a special LOVE. All his friends called me mom, and I always had a house
full of boys. Everyone felt I would lose it this time for sure. But Thanks to God and his
help I have made it. You see the night of receiving friends and family I was in bed crying
my eyes out and heart totally broken. my touch lamp came on. The first time it came on I
thought I never turned it off, the second time I was scared to death and told my husband
if it came on again I was getting out of the bedroom. The third time it came on I started
to get out of there when a peaceful feeling came over me and I knew then who it was. I
told Michael good night baby, I love you. I held his hand in mine the rest of the night.
The next day I made it through the services with a smile on my face. I know people thinks
I am crazy but I had a peace that know one on this earth could have given to me except
God. The police said my son committed suicide. But I know that he was shoot in the back of
the head. I have gone to see a well known Phychic Named Bobby Drennen. He also said that
it was an accident. Michael still comes and comforts me when I need it most. I have read a
lot of books and gone
Just happened upon your website via Romanowski's website.
I have heard of your book before but have not read it as of yet. Once I finish reading the
5 other books I'm reading now I'll hopefully have time. I have always believed in ADC's,
since my earliest memories. My Mom & Grandmother told me of theirs or those
experienced by other family members since I was a child. After my Grama's death in 1991 I
actually questioned if she loved me. She came to me 3 times to let me know that, yes,
indeed she loves me. My Mother, my best friend, was misdiagnosed a director of pathology
for a California hospital in 1991, which led to her death on October 13, 1995. She died in
my arms, my fingers on her wrist feeling her pulse & life slip from this world to the
one parallel. I was in absolute agony over her death. I miss our talking, laughing,
shopping, cooking, experiencing life together. But, the one thing I missed the most was
her hugs. Two months after her death I took a walk out in the woods behind my sister's
house, feeling so totally lost & alone that I wanted to die, to just be with my Mom
again. I stood there in the middle of the woods, totally dark with snow all around, crying
& yelling at God then, crying & talking to my Mom. After I was finished talking I
"said" to my Mom that the one thing I really missed was her hugs, an incredibly
warm, safe feeling of a loving embrace totally surounded me & held onto me until I was
able to calm down & walk back to the house. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that my
Mom was hugging me then, just as she is with me all of the time. I have been guided
through some incredible pain and wonderous experiences, thanks to my Mom & all my
other loved ones. They are just right next to me & they will never, ever leave me.
Sometimes, it's just a little hard getting used to a different way of communicating with
them. But, I KNOW they're there, by God's grace. And, sometimes they're learning, too, a
"different" way of communicating with us. For those of you who ask if there is
concrete, possitive, scientific proof that ADC's & the like are real or not, the
answer is yes - The millions (if not billions) of people on this earth who have
experienced similar experiences. The answer is faith. The following information is for
those that wish more "tangible" contact but, like me, find George Anderson's or
Van Praghes fees a little too cost-prohibitive: Ministry of Angels Shirley Southerland
8104 Ravencrest Court Louisville, KY 40222 (502) 429-4177 Telephone sessions available
Thank you for this web site. Anybody wishing to contct me via e-mail to talk about greif
& loss, please feel free.
Our daughter Jaime stepped into Heaven on November 27,
1994. She was only 3 years old, the youngest in a set of twins. She has given me several
adc gifts, including seeing her in the doorway to my bedroom, coming to me in several
"dreams" that I knew were not dreams but visits, and audibly hearing her giggle
or call my name. These are blessings from above that not everyone believes. I'm glad to be
able to know that there are people who do believe my experiences, and people such as
yourselves who have worked to get the word out. Your book as well as others have given me
"permission" to know in my heart what is real, so I can accept the gifts Jaime
gave me from Heaven.
I really do not know anyone who has died, so I can't give
any accounts of talking with someone directly who has died that I know....however, I DO
believe in this concept. IIn 1992-the present, I have heard noises in the house that made
me believe that someone was there besides me, and my family members were not present at
the times....I don't know exactly what it is......
I have Hello from Heaven and liked it so much that I
purchased another copy for the grief counselor that has been helping me. She loved the
book also.
IHAVE READ MANY BOOKS ABOUT LIFE AFTER DEATH AND OR NDE'
SO HERE I AM LOOKING THE SUBJECT UP ON MY COMPUTER...I HAVE YOU BOOKMARKED SO I'LL BE BACK
:)
I lost my husband in a car accident two weeks before
xmas1990.A drunk driver hit him headon.Six months before my mother died of cancer.I have
three great boys,the youngest was just a baby when his father left us.In my darkest hours
I could smell him near me,feel him close.I thank GOD for that Gift.
Five yrs after the death of my grandfather he contacted
me, on a phone that was not hooked up. He wanted me to warn my father (a car salesman)
about driving a vehical to be specific, my grandfather said "THAT TRUCK!" and to
pass on his love. I told my father & he thought I was crazy, like I knew he would. I
felt like dad wasn't listening so I called my grandmother & told her, knowing she
would make him pay attension. Well she did and that same day I told my grandmother, a man
came into the car dealership to trade in his TRUCK for a new one. Trade-in's must be
driven, & it dawned on my father, truck-don't drive. He called the machanic to look it
over while the man browsed the new cars lot. The machnic found that something in the
connection between stearing wheel & the axel like a pin had come loose. With out this
pin the vehical would not have turned. My dad listens to me know when I have any warnings
to give out--no madder how crazy it seams.
Lost our daughter,onSept 26,1997,to a head on car
collision! Her name was Misti M,Bister,Goodson
I just found this beautiful web site through Natalie's
love and light site. How wonderful!
Nice web site
Our beautiful son committed suicide Oct. 1, 1997. He had
suffered from depression off and on, but seemed to be doing really great. Our Japanese
exchange student was murdered at the Concord, CA. BART station 4 years ago. He had been
with our family for more than a year. Our son was in France when Masa was murdered. Josh
suffered such depression after this. It is so difficult to understand that he is gone. At
his memorial young and old told loving stories of him. He always was there for everyone.
He wrote beautiful sensitive music and had such a haunting voice. He touched so many
lives. He just couldn't get over losing the love of his life and seeing her with someone
else. My days have no beginning or end. I know he is in a peaceful place now and not
hurting anymore, but we miss him so much.
Hospice volunteer for a number of years
I lost my daughter on October 9th. Within hours I knew
that our estrangement was over, finished, and that she knew all the factors which led her
mom and I to divorce. It is still sad, but she is well and happier than seh can remember.
My daughter, Jordan, was killed on March 23, 1997 in a
car crash. Her friend Craig was killed also. While devasted by her death, I was comforted
by the fact that she was with a friend when she died and that I have always believed in
life after death. I have had little signs that she is with me, but I really want to see
and talk to her. I have had "dreams" that I am not sure are dreams or that I
have actually talked and hugged her. I look forward to any books you write in the future
on this topic.
I haven' read your book, but will now, now that I found
this web. You see I lost my oldest son, Buddy to a motorcycle acc ident June 9th 1994.
Buddy was an avid motorcross souped up dirtbike rider. The 9th 0f June 94, Buddy and a
friend(J.D.) of his little brother BillyJack went to Ebo to check out the hills and to
have fun.You see J.D. came back with buddy's truck alone. J.D. said Buddy was going too
slow and got hurt, We needed to call the hospital. They took him to St. Louis University
Hospital.He never regained consciousness.J.D. said Buddy was going too slow up the hill
that when he got to the top the bike kicked back and went back down the steep hill,as the
bike went down the hill the back tire hit him in the helmet 3 times splitting it each
time. Buddy was in a coma for less than 2wks. BillyJack would have gone with them but he
had went on a trip with school to Chicago and would'nt be home til Sun. As I got to the
Hospital that last day of his life, I ran in his room and said "Bubba, it's alright
Momma's here. He let out a sigh and then he was gone. The year he died, he would also have
been age 25 that Christmas Eve. So now every time that holi- day comes around I'm usually
a space case.God, we miss him so terribly much. Buddy was a good kid. He graduated St.
Charles High School in 1988.Went on to Electrians school, and became that
electrician,apprentice and journeyman. Needless to say he left his little brother well
off. And now Buddy would be so proud of BillyJack,cause he's a senior now and will be
graduating this June on Buddy's death anniversary.Theres not a day that goes by that we
don't think of him or say something about him. People say leave him go, but you know
something THEY ARE NOT IN OUR SHOES!He'll be with us forever. BUBBA WE LOVE YOU.
I've just completed reading the book and passed in on to
a coworker. I want to thank the Guggenheims for having the courage to conduct such studies
and write the book. It takes courage to speak out in such a cynical, clinical world such
as ours. Your book has encouraged me to once again take up meditation in the eventuallity
that I may once again experience my unfailing friendship with my departed friend Michael.
Peace, Leigh
MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL,AN I WILL PRAY FOR YOU ALL AS I
HAVE BEEN ALL MY LIFE. LOOK FOR PEASE,SHAIR YOUR LOVE WITH OTHERS AS GOD WOULD WANTYOU TO.
Please, to anyone who might have lost their love and
beloved to suicide, email me. I tried to post a message on the message board but it didn't
work. My other posting is below, about my soul-mate Michael and his suicide. I have had 2
other significant ADC's that I would like to share. I feel isolated and alone, and am
hoping someone will respond. Molly |
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