| Monica, I am so sorry for all the pain you are going through. I know it takes so much strength to be the one that has to care for everyone when your own pain is so great. Your Daughter and husband are so blessed to have you there for them. I wish I had the answers for you, but I just don't know why we have to endure these things. Some say it is a school of sorts, that help us learn how to help others , and we can only help by experiencing these feelings ourselves. Others say we choose to have these experiences in order to learn compassion for others that are hurting., There is one thing that I do know, Our loved ones are always near us and in our pain we may not see their signs but they never leave us. This world we live in is just temporary, we will see our loved ones again. Do you have a relative or a special friend that can be your support to lean on while , you are being the support for your Husband and daughter? It's important that you also have someone to talk to help you . Maybe you can help your daughter by helping her understand, that her Granddad is not gone , that he will be watching over her, and encourage her to talk to you if she receives signs from him. I don't know how old she is , but children often receive signs that grownups think is just imagination. Help her understand that his love for her will always be there. You will all be in my prayers. |
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