It's so difficult, isn't it? Knowing that deep down, the more despairing we are, the harder it is for our loved ones to get through. It makes sense if you think about it, all those intense emotions actually feel like they weigh us down, it's no wonder they permeate our spirit, leaving no gap for our loved ones to visit.
It is so ironic, because it's often the case that having one of those messages would be the thing that soothes those feelings, yet, when we feel them, there may not be any message, and it seems so much beyond our control, especially when it comes to sadness.
I suppose the best thing we can do is change our perspective from one of loss to one of gratitude for our loved ones having been in our lives. Perhaps, that is the beginning...
Brightest Blessings and Hugs,