|Cath I have only searched the Internet for answers nothing else really.
I remember reading on here that sometimes if the ashes of your loved one are in the house sometimes that can encourage adc's or asking them to send you a sign also. I hope you get some results from your lamp.
This is a great site I love coming on here reading other peoples experiences. Its a fountain of knowledge and has brought me a lot of comfort since I lost my son.
Tracy x x