| Believe me Andrea,I can relate,I can recall quite a few times that I could have handled things with my son differently also.Andrea,we are only human and our sons realize that,we make mistakes while we are in our earthly bodies and it is with hindsight that we realize those mistakes but it is also where we learn from those mistakes.Please know that your son totally understands why and how you handled those situations and he realizes you raised him the best you knew how and I guarantee you this,he loves you as much if not more than he did while here.He understands everything now while he may not have understood while here.Im so glad that when you asked for the happier memories that he encouraged them to come through and made you feel better.Our sons want for us to be guiltfree and happy,lets do our best to do that for them.Please take good care and know you always did the best you could with the know how that you had. Much Love, Josie |
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